Friends!!!

Friends!! What does it mean anymore! Sure we call people our friend, yet does it have the same meaning? Most that we call friend have been there so long that now they are called fam, sister, or brother. it all started with being a friend! Are you less of a friend if you dont talk to them everyday? Maybe they need you more than you need them. Maybe you need them more. Its  toss up between the two, yet we still call them friend. Sometimes we seem to judge our friends on what they can do for us. How accessible they are when you need them. It's quite funny really! A lot of people are only around for what they can get from you! That is a lonely life to have. We have seen pictures and movies of friends growing old together. Not once leaving each other side! Argue one day and playing ball the next! What happened to those days? Did we just start to get to old to understand it, or was it that life took hold of us and changed our perception of it! I for one am vey nieve when it comes to friends. I believe there is good in everyone! Even if its buried deep down. I believe in the logic of things. I've always said "If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck, and talks like a duck"! Well im sure you understand. Maybe the genuine days of friendships are over. Given way to fake social media hype, and cute little puppy noses on your pictures! Maybe the days of "just because you mad at them doesnt mean i have to be" are a thing of the past! It has given way to, "if i hate them, then you go to also"! One of the things that i try to teach my children is to be bigger than the pettiness around you! Always choose the side or right, even though it may hurt. At least you dont have to live with the guilt and knowledge that you were in the wrong!!! 

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